Life is what we make it or rather make of it..
One year has passed as a student in London, I wonder sometimes What has come and What has gone? What has changed me for the better or the worst?
Life is what we make it after all and as you may have earlier read in one of my posts it is highly influenced by the choices we make in life... or the decisions we take in our life... not all these decisions are appropriate but at the end of the day they all teach you something about yourself, about others around you and that is how perhaps you discover and rediscover yourself...
In this one year, I learnt a lot about the city, my course (after all I better do that), more than anything I made new friends and I am sure I learnt a lot from them
Now it is going to be a new beginning and am sure the bonds with friends will get stronger, but I have realised one thing as a person, a friend, a sister and a daughter that the stronger you make bonds with people, the more attachments are created...
Now the question I ask myself is.. Why these attachments?? What is the need of being attached?? But somethings just happen and one cannot always have control over them.
It is obviously a given fact that we as intellectual humans who think for ourselves and our actions are a result of our thoughts should have more control over situations. This control over situations can perhaps happen when we take charge of our mind.. Why only mind? infact we must take charge of our mind, body and soul. We must organize our life around the way we wish to, just the way we make attempts to plan our career, our education, our daily chores and schedules, we must attempt to take charge, think and decide who we wish to build stronger bonds with..But, like I mentioned sometimes we do not have control over situations...
This control over situations is lost when we are thinking from our heart perhaps.. because it is the mind which should think and not the heart... heart is supposed to feel and internalise what the mind thinks... but the thinking responsibility is obviously of the mind..
Hence, the day we completely disconnect our heart from our mind we will be able to take control over situations and rightly say that our actions and attachments are a product of a mind and Life is after all what we make of it.
One year has passed as a student in London, I wonder sometimes What has come and What has gone? What has changed me for the better or the worst?
Life is what we make it after all and as you may have earlier read in one of my posts it is highly influenced by the choices we make in life... or the decisions we take in our life... not all these decisions are appropriate but at the end of the day they all teach you something about yourself, about others around you and that is how perhaps you discover and rediscover yourself...
In this one year, I learnt a lot about the city, my course (after all I better do that), more than anything I made new friends and I am sure I learnt a lot from them
Now it is going to be a new beginning and am sure the bonds with friends will get stronger, but I have realised one thing as a person, a friend, a sister and a daughter that the stronger you make bonds with people, the more attachments are created...
Now the question I ask myself is.. Why these attachments?? What is the need of being attached?? But somethings just happen and one cannot always have control over them.
It is obviously a given fact that we as intellectual humans who think for ourselves and our actions are a result of our thoughts should have more control over situations. This control over situations can perhaps happen when we take charge of our mind.. Why only mind? infact we must take charge of our mind, body and soul. We must organize our life around the way we wish to, just the way we make attempts to plan our career, our education, our daily chores and schedules, we must attempt to take charge, think and decide who we wish to build stronger bonds with..But, like I mentioned sometimes we do not have control over situations...
This control over situations is lost when we are thinking from our heart perhaps.. because it is the mind which should think and not the heart... heart is supposed to feel and internalise what the mind thinks... but the thinking responsibility is obviously of the mind..
Hence, the day we completely disconnect our heart from our mind we will be able to take control over situations and rightly say that our actions and attachments are a product of a mind and Life is after all what we make of it.
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